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What Every Straight Ally Should Know
One of the most unique aspects of
the Gay-Straight Alliance model is that it brings together LGBTQ
individuals and straight allies to combat homophobia. Here are
some ways to encourage straight allies (or potential allies) to
become more actively and effectively involved in your GSA.
TEN WAYS HOMOPHOBIA AFFECTS
STRAIGHT PEOPLE
- Homophobia forces us to act
"macho" if we are a man or "feminine" if we are a woman.
This limits our individuality and self-expression.
- Homophobia puts pressure on
straight people to act aggressively and angrily towards
LGBTQ people.
- Homophobia makes it hard to
be close friends with someone of the same sex.
- Homophobia often strains
family and community relationships.
- Homophobia causes youth to
become sexually active before they are ready in order to
prove they are "normal." This can lead to an increase in
unwanted pregnancies and STDs.
- Homophobia prevents vital
information on sex and sexuality to be taught in schools.
Without this information, youth are putting themselves at a
greater risk for HIV and other STDs.
- Homophobia can be used to
hurt a straight person if they "appear to be gay."
- Homophobia makes it hard for
straight people and LGBTQ people to be friends.
- Homophobia along with
racism, sexism, classism, etc. makes it hard to put an end
to AIDS.
- Homophobia makes it hard to
appreciate true diversity and the unique traits that are not
mainstream or "normal."
For more info, see Homophobia:
How We All Pay the Price, edited by Warren J. Blumenfeld,
Boston: Beacon Press: 1992.
WAYS TO FIGHT HOMOPHOBIA AS A
STRAIGHT ALLY
- Organize discussion groups
in class or after school to talk about the "Ten Ways
Homophobia Affects Straight People."
- Always use neutral labels
like "partner" or "significant other" instead of
"boyfriend," "girlfriend," etc. when writing papers or
talking to others.
- Bring up LGBTQ issues in
conversations with friends or discussions in class.
- Interrupt anti-LGBTQ jokes,
comments or any other behaviors that make homophobia appear
OK.
- Put LGBTQ-positive posters
in the halls and classrooms or wear shirts, buttons, etc.
that promote tolerance.
- Don't make assumptions about
peoples' sexual orientations or gender identities. Assume
there are LGBTQ people in all classes, sports, meetings,
daily life, etc.
- Don't assume that
"feminine-acting men" and "masculine-acting women" are not
heterosexual.
- Don't assume that "macho
males" or "feminine females" are heterosexual.
Courtesy of the
California GSA Network
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